Monthly Archives: April 2024

Riding On the Great Bus of Life

Posted on April 29, 2024 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

(And why it is never a good idea to get too attached.) I have a theory about life. I hope you will indulge me for a moment while I attempt to explain. See, we are all riding on the bus … Continue reading →

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Do You Feel Invisible?

Posted on April 23, 2024 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

In one of my recent scrolls through Instagram, I came upon a woman of a “certain age” bemoaning the indignities of growing old. She purported there were 4 major concerns we women will face, fight and to which we will … Continue reading →

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Do You Play to Play or Do You Play to Win?

Posted on April 11, 2024 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

When we are kids, we are told that playing the game is enough; there is no need to win. Those of us who believe that are typically the ones who aren’t much good at whatever the game is. Those who … Continue reading →

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Emotional Masturbation … and Why Do We Insist on Doing It Publicly?

Posted on April 4, 2024 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Many years ago, when the Canadian Smooth Jazz Awards still existed, one of my musical girlfriends attended the show. She enjoyed it immensely but still could not resist a small (and very funny) “jab” at the end, when many of … Continue reading →

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