Monthly Archives: April 2012

Is There Really Only One Love Of Your Life?

Posted on April 18, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Do you believe in one love of your life?  Seriously.  Is there really just one special, magical, perfect soulmate?  Or do we perhaps get a few kicks at the old soulmate can? I wonder. My friends P and L would, … Continue reading →

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Did you say “Furnace Filter”?

Posted on April 14, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Sometimes I wish I lived in a hotel room.  You know, nothing to worry about, nothing to be responsible for. If something breaks down, just call the front desk and it all gets magically taken care of. Of course for … Continue reading →

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When exactly does love end?

Posted on April 10, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

It’s been exactly two weeks and four days since we broke up.  No, I’m not counting hours and minutes too.  I actually had to stop and access my fingers to come with these numbers.  Because also no, I am not … Continue reading →

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Limbo … or lazy (how long should I wait)?

Posted on April 6, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Who would ever suspect, how quickly we could disconnect. Every now and then I write a lyric.  Sometimes that lyric never finds its home in a song; it’s just a lonely lyric.  If you’re a songwriter, please feel free to … Continue reading →

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When long week-ends are just too long …

Posted on April 5, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Long week-ends are a source of joy. Whether you’re religious or not, an extra day of rest/fun/different is much anticipated and most often greatly enjoyed.  Family, friends, festivities or just sleeping in – long week-ends are a source of joy. … Continue reading →

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Which way ya going, Vickie …

Posted on April 4, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

“Don’t look back. You’re not going that way.” I love this quote.  Simple and succinct. And yet, man oh man, do we ever spend a lot of time looking back.  Especially when we are recently single. Why? Why do we … Continue reading →

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when love isn’t really … love.

Posted on April 2, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

When is love truly love and when is it just – want?  Passion?  Laziness?   Or maybe … just the lonely talking? How many times have you heard someone say “But I love him!”? What’s with the “but” anyway?  Shouldn’t it … Continue reading →

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