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About winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Writing is therapy. Wine is therapy. Writing while drinking wine is the best therapy. Reading while drinking can also be fun. Listening while drinking is also fun so check out my podcast! And then there's that book (memoir) that I wrote: Confessions of a Potty-Mouthed Chef: How to Cheat, Eat and be Happy! My life has provided me with a wealth of inspiration. Maybe something here will inspire you too? ~Vickie

So What Exactly Is The Purpose Of Life?

Posted on July 12, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

When I asked this question on social media I was gifted with many different answers. From “there is no purpose” to “if you need a purpose go find one” to “helping others” to “finding happiness” and “giving and receiving love” … Continue reading →

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Alone And In Pain

Posted on July 3, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Yep. That’s me on this sunny, hot summer evening in cottage country. Alone and in pain. Well, okay, not totally alone. My dog is here and there are lots of people surrounding me. But in my own little sanctum I … Continue reading →

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The Art Of Receiving Criticism

Posted on June 25, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

A few days ago, I was told by a friend that I “don’t take criticism very well.” “WTF?” retorted I indignantly. “Are you kidding me?” My blood pressure rose significantly, as did my voice. “Who me … not take criticism well?” And … Continue reading →

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You Know What … Maybe It IS All About Me?

Posted on June 21, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Do you remember (many years ago) those “Baby On Board” bumper stickers? They became very popular and everyone agreed they were a good reminder to drive with more caution. After all, that tiny brand new soul was in the vehicle. … Continue reading →

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Why Do I Blog? The Answers May Surprise You.

Posted on June 18, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

A friend recently asked me WHY I blog? What is it in me that feels the NEED to disclose so much personal information with the world? Why do I have such desire to SHARE so much publicly. Sure, other people … Continue reading →

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Karma Is A Bitch … But Maybe So Are You?

Posted on June 14, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

A few nights ago I was drinking wine with a friend and in between sips, nibbles of cheese and a brief discussion of my melancholy, she was bemoaning many things in her life. Some more or less out of her … Continue reading →

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Best Friends Day? Hmmm … I Don’t Have One.

Posted on June 8, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

I just read that today is “Best Friends” Day. Who knew? I guess we all need something to celebrate every day so why not? Except I do not know exactly who I should celebrate on this auspicious occasion. Because I … Continue reading →

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How Often Do You Mountain A Molehill?

Posted on May 17, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

One of the great beauties of getting older (and there are many) is that through all that living we end up with so many experiences to look back on … and learn from. And that’s the thing, isn’t it? Some … Continue reading →

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Motherless Mother’s Day … and Passing The Torch.

Posted on May 8, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

This Sunday I will experience my first ever Mother’s Day without my mama. I am not sad. Perhaps a bit wistful but I recognize daily how fortunate I am. And was. My mother lived to 93. I got more than … Continue reading →

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What Is The Perfect Relationship?

Posted on May 3, 2018 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Lately I’ve been thinking a lot about relationships. I mean A LOT. Like more than my usual boatload. Not really sure why? Have I ever told you what the three most important things in life are (in my ever so … Continue reading →

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