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How Much Mind-Reading Do You Expect Your Partner to DO?
I just saw this “alleged” quote yesterday, attributed to famed Mexican painter Frida Kahlo. Apparently she once said to her husband, “I’m not asking you to kiss me or to apologize when I think you’re wrong. I won’t ask you … Continue reading
Posted in help, language, Love, relationships
Tagged ask, beautiful, family, friendship, kiss, life, love, marriage, mind reading, partner, relationships, romance, truth
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What Should We Do About Inattentive Friends?
We all have them, right? The friends who ignore us for months on end? The friends to whom we regularly reach out or invite, with nary a reciprocal invitation to behold. The friends who don’t seem terribly invested in a … Continue reading
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Tagged company, energy, friends, friendship, inattentive, life, rapport, relationship, relationships, resilence, selfish
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Our Absolute Inherent Need to Be Needed!
I have a good friend, a dear gentleman of senior years, who prides himself on being independent. Even when age and ailments could be slowing him down (and perhaps do) he continues to get stuff done on his own. Even … Continue reading
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Tagged ask, assistance, community, family, friendship, grief, help, life, love, need, respect, risk, self-esteem, value, vulnerable, widow, widowhood
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Who Is the Love of Your Life?
(or … why we should all listen to Viola Davis!) I used to believe it was the most romantic phrase in all language – love of my life. Wow! In all of my life, before and henceforth, you are IT, … Continue reading
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Tagged Disney, ego, emotions, fireworks, happiness, happy ending, harmony, joy, law of attraction, life, love, love of life, love of your life, oxygen, prince charming, relationships, romance, search, self-love, selfish, Viola Davis
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Do You Feel Invisible?
In one of my recent scrolls through Instagram, I came upon a woman of a “certain age” bemoaning the indignities of growing old. She purported there were 4 major concerns we women will face, fight and to which we will … Continue reading
Now Tell the Truth … How Often Do You Adjust Yourself?
The other day I was chatting with a very old friend. We have known each other for decades and traversed many of life’s mountains and valleys together. We have also completely ignored one another for years. But our bond is … Continue reading
Posted in help, relationships
Tagged adjust, authentic, compromise, empower, family, freindships, goals, health, life, love affair, mental health, person, productivity, regulation, truth, work
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And you wonder why we’re always sad …
“There would seem to be nothing more obvious, more tangible and palpable than the present moment. And yet it eludes us completely. All the sadness of life lies in that fact.” (Milan Kundera) Read that again. Slowly. Then take a … Continue reading
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Tagged awareness, drama, future, heart, imagine, life, living in the moment, marriage, mindfulness, moments, older, personal-growth, present, sad, sadness, savor, soul, struggle, unhappy
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Vulnerability in not a lifestyle …
I recently saw a Tik Tok video about vulnerability. How difficult it is to achieve. How daunting it is to maintain. How, even when you practice it a little, or a lot, it is still really hard to live it … Continue reading
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Tagged choice, heartbreak, life, lifestyle, love, manipulation, practice, pride, relationships, result, risk, solo, strength, truth, vulnerability, vulnerable
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The Most Fucks I Have Ever Written in One Blog or … When It Really Is Time To Let Go …
It is one of the hardest damn things in life. It may well be THE hardest damn thing in life. Letting go. Think about it. From our first, best, favourite toy to the security of our momma’s apron strings, from … Continue reading
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Tagged acceptance, accountability, addiction, bad guy, choice, conviction, deserve, endings, farewell, friendship, fun, good guy, gratitude, guilt, hope, husband, letting go, life, love, loving, peace, pleasure, relationships, selfless, truth
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