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Author Archives: winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke
If You Could Find A Way Out Of Emotional Pain, Would You Take It?
One of the things I love more than anything (up there with wine and chocolate and music and friendship) is brilliant writing. Of course there is much brilliant writing to be read, from Shakespeare to Tolstoy, to Elizabeth Gilbert (personal … Continue reading
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How Would You Define Love … in One Sentence?
Now think about it. Don’t rush into anything. Because I want to know what love is. Oh – is that a song? Seriously, we all have different notions of what constitutes love. And I guess for the sake of clarity … Continue reading
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For All My Friends With Hidden Ailments (both physical and mental) – This One’s For You.
I haven’t rambled in awhile, mostly because I’ve been pretty busy rambling. For real. As in – moving. Moving can be a daunting task (as I’m sure you know) but I truly think that, for me, far less daunting than … Continue reading
Do You Confuse Love With Ownership?
I recently came upon this quote from a man called Osho and found it quite compelling: “The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: … Continue reading
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Love Is A Verb.
Love is a verb. I know it’s been said before, in poetry and song, but I would like to remind you that … love is a verb. Okay so maybe I’m lying. Because love is actually also a noun, I … Continue reading
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Isn’t It Time You Got Naked?
Do you remember that sense of gleeful abandon you experienced the first time you swam naked as a child? That sense of freedom, rebellion and joy? That jubilant tingle as water touched parts of your physique never before touched? That … Continue reading
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Why Life Is Like Eyebrows …
I recently had an epiphany. The epiphany that we all hope to experience. That lightening flash where life’s purpose suddenly became clear to me and I completely understood the Universe in all its complexity. I realized my purpose, I comprehended … Continue reading
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Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest Word …
Have you ever noticed how most people spend far too much time making excuses instead of making amends? I’ve never been able to figure out why that is, especially when a simple and heartfelt apology would do the trick instantly … Continue reading
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It’s My Birthday … and I’ll wear denim overalls if I want to …
Here it is, my birthday eve once again, and I thought I’d better check in. Then I thought maybe I’d just post the blog I wrote last year because it still rings true. All of it. And then I started … Continue reading
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Are You AVAILABLE For Happiness?
C. P. Snow, the English Novelist and scientist, once wrote: “The pursuit of happiness is a most ridiculous phrase; if you pursue happiness you’ll never find it.” In my humble opinion, old C.P. was dead wrong. Abe Lincoln once said … Continue reading
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