Tag Archives: desire

The Thing About Sex …

Posted on August 21, 2020 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

Which came first- the chicken or the egg? I know … a real conundrum. And you thought I was going to talk about sex. Actually, I am. And the big question is – which comes first? Intimacy or intercourse? Now … Continue reading →

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Why I Am No Longer A Damsel In Distress

Posted on October 22, 2019 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

It’s funny (not really) how you can reach the age of 50 and have no idea who you really are or what kind of programs you have been running (unsuccessfully) your entire life. Yes – programs. Like a computer. We … Continue reading →

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You’ve Got Mail! Or … Can E-Relationships Be Real and Meaningful?

Posted on July 11, 2019 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

I still remember the day I received my first email. It was from a girlfriend’s boyfriend in the States. I had recently taken possession of a lumbering old beast and logging on to that phone line, hearing that crazy noise … Continue reading →

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Do You Know How Hard It Is To Walk Away From Everything?

Posted on May 26, 2017 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

I do. And I can tell you with total conviction it is really fucking hard. Damn near impossible. So what do I mean by everything? I once heard a tale about a woman who refused to leave her lousy marriage. … Continue reading →

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when love isn’t really … love.

Posted on April 2, 2012 by winesoakedramblings - The Blog of Vickie van Dyke

When is love truly love and when is it just – want?  Passion?  Laziness?   Or maybe … just the lonely talking? How many times have you heard someone say “But I love him!”? What’s with the “but” anyway?  Shouldn’t it … Continue reading →

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